Nationalism and Girls who Date Foreigners

Focus: Women and Nationalism

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In Taiwan I've often heard the word Xicanmei (西餐妹) bandied about —— Xicanmei literally means girls who like to eat Western food, but here it is used to mean Asian girls who date Western men—— but the term always made struck me as over-emphasizing the difference between Taiwanese people (us) and Western foreigners (them). The fact that it refers almost exclusively to women suggests also that there is a male chauvinist implication behind the term - it functions to undermine the individuality and independence of women in the choices they make in their love lives, and sees these choices instead in terms of a failure to be patriotic and marry 'into the tribe' so to speak. The term was popularized when a Taiwanese rapper wrote a song about it, the lyrics of which are anti-Western in sentiment and very critical of girls who date with foreigners. This is an extract from the song originally in Taiwanese:

'When they're not listening to ICRT [Taiwan's English Radio Station] they're looking for girls, they go round bars with a Heineken in their hand

The stuff they talk about is vulgar and shallow, they're all talking about Dog-G's new album.

One of my friends is dating a big-nose [Taiwanese word for foreigner] She says he's a gentleman and very romantic

She thinks maybe she can get a green card and have a little foreign baby, she's at the night market buying oyster omelettes

You say that some are actually alright, I understand, they'll toss you a "ni hao" and you think it's so cute, give me a break!' (Dog-G)

 

Below is an interview with several women and one man who express their views on the use of this term, and its ideological implications:

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0 #8 Conor Stuart 2012-07-17 13:51
Quoting Klaus:
Thank you for these excellent videos. I tried to make some more people aware of them with this blog post: http://www.intaiwan.de/2012/07/09/taiwanese-girls-dating-western-foreigners-what-is-a-xicanmei/

Thanks Klaus, was just checking out your blog, really interesting posts (the English ones)
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+2 #7 2012-07-11 10:40
Thank you for these excellent videos. I tried to make some more people aware of them with this blog post: http://www.intaiwan.de/2012/07/09/taiwanese-girls-dating-western-foreigners-what-is-a-xicanmei/
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0 #6 Conor Stuart 2012-05-25 15:02
Hey Shufan,

I like your insights into the terms you mentioned - just going to give a brief translation of what you said for our English language readers:

"In the Mandarin Chinese used in Taiwan, they've invented some terms with negative connotations to denote the phenomenon of Taiwanese girls who are in relationships with (or who have sex with) Westerners, examples of which would be 'Xicanmei' (literally girls who eat Western food, figuratively girls who date Western guys), 'Corpse Collectors' (to refer to Western guys who pick up Taiwanese girls who have drunk too much and are unconscious or semi-conscious), 'Lovers of Foreign Male Reproductive Organs' [not really a faithful translation of '屌' here, but I'm trying to keep it reasonably clean lol.] etc. I think the metaphoric uses these phrases make of the body are very interesting.
The term 'Xicanmei' imagines Western men as food, and imagines Taiwanese girls as cannibalistic monsters who feast upon their essential energy (or chi)...

'Corpse Collectors' turns girl into passive objects, who have lost their essential energy (chi), but come back from the dead in bed as some zombie-like creature...

Is it then possible to imagine this as a Nationalist trope devised in the context of Taiwanese people's conservatism, which sees how 'Westerners' enjoy 'special privileges' in Taiwan as a reincarnation of Imperialism, and therefore they naturally see Taiwanese girls who fraternize with Westerners as zombies infected by its living corpse?

The night of the living dead, a pale dance where hot girls and big-nosed (Western) guys dance with Count Dracula...

I just think the images conjured up by these terms in Chinese are very vivid and widely variant, the images themselves are enough to satisfy my curiosity..."

Conor
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+3 #5 2012-05-25 10:26
對於台灣女生與"西方人"在一起(或發生性行為)的現象, 台灣的中文創造了一些負面字眼, 像是"西餐妹", "撿屍體", "哈洋屌"...等等. 我覺得這其中的身體隱喻很有意思 .

"西餐妹"這詞彙把"西方男人"視為食物, 把台灣女生當作吃人並從中獲取精 氣的怪物...
而"撿屍體"則把女生轉化為一個被動的物件, 失去生氣, 但仍會在床上還魂的殭屍....
是否可以從中想像台灣人的保守意 識仍然民族自尊心作祟, 而把"西方人"在台灣享受"特權"的現象視為帝國主義的借屍還魂, 因此與他們接近的台灣女生自然也 成了"殭屍"?

活死人之夜, 殭屍辣妹與高鼻子吸血鬼卓古勒蒼 白共舞...

我只是對於中文詞彙意象之 生動鮮活, 多采多姿 歎為觀止...
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+1 #4 Conor Stuart 2012-05-22 18:20
Hey again,

I know one guy who has dated a lot of Western girls, and he describes himself as liking feistier girls, but I think he's dated Taiwanese girls before. I remember hearing about a section on bbs dedicated to the worship of Israeli women with guns - but not sure if that qualifies. Looking at the boards discussing foreigners on bbs also throws up a lot of extreme views and it's difficult to get people to publicly acknowledge things that they say in private or online.

I thought the other point you brought up concerning South East Asian brides was interesting, and think it was addressed in part by a Focus response by Yang Zijie, one of our editors, the link is here if you want to check out the video: www.erenlai.com/index.php/en/focus/2012-focus/women-and-nationalism/5020-focus-response-women-and-nationalism

Thanks again for responding to the focus.
Conor
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0 #3 2012-05-22 16:33
Hey Conor, thanks for the response.

I know one Taiwanese guy and some ABC-ishs who have dated Western girls, so I'm aware that this happens. But out of curiosity, do you know any Taiwanese guys who are *exclusively* interested in Western girls? In my experience, Anti-Nationalism (the "exclusive Xicanmei") is limited to girls. I honestly don't know why.

Also, there was a recent mini-scandal about some Taiwanese woman publicly urging Taiwanese men to please marry local women instead of importing spouses from SEA. The scandal was in her punchline, "you buy local meat, so why do you import a spouse?". Not really an answer to your comment, but an interesting parallel. I wish I were able to Google it up!
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+1 #2 Conor Stuart 2012-05-22 15:15
Hey Kuchayou,
Thanks for your comment. I wrote both the definition in the video and in the article. I accept your point, but I think that the definition of Xicanmei is actually highly subjective, and different people have very different perceptions of what constitutes it, as reflected in the opinions of the girls filmed. I agree with you that there are women who exclusively chase Western men and dislike all Taiwanese men - my point was not that the phenomenon does not exist - although the people in the video express their own opinions on this matter, my point is rather that reasons for being a "Xicanmei" are not purely explicable through a Nationalistic narrative. Some of the reasons that sexual attraction develops are highly complex and saying that liking foreign men is because they are not loyal to their country or implying that this is a source of shame is chauvinistic and takes away subjectivity from women. The girls who exclusively chase foreigners would benefit from traveling of course, and finding out that the rest of the world is as ordinary as Taiwan, but the fact that in Taiwan this term has become so popular indicates the reality that Taiwanese people notice race a lot more (this obviously derives from State policy) - and therefore it sees these kinds of relationships as something that stands out - even if the girl in question is not an "exclusive" dater of Western guys.

Actually I have some male Taiwanese friends who have dated, and some who are currently dating Western girls - and they are seen in a much more positive light than their female counterparts - and Western girls, it could be argued that Western girls are seen as status symbols - which feeds into the Nationalistic narrative from the other end. So essentially it's the male voice from which value is derived - essentially translating to - 'if she dates a foreigner - it's a rejection of me, the Taiwanese male, therefore a rejection of Taiwan, - if I date a foreigner then it is an affirmation of me, a Taiwanese male, therefore an affirmation of Taiwan.' This is what I meant by the male-centered chauvinistic implication of the term. It is, in short, all a construct. People should be appreciated for being individuals not as representing their country or not. A marriage based on the condition that the guy is white - is not going to last long or be a happy one - and it's for the individual woman in that relationship to figure that out, but it doesn't imply a rejection of her country - a country which belongs as much to her as any male.

Conor
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+1 #1 2012-05-22 13:07
I just wanted to point out that your definition of Xicanmei is crucially different than the one in the video. The video emphasizes that Xicanmei *exclusively* date Western men.

In contrast to what the girl says at the end of the video - I have met several girls who claim to hate all Taiwanese men and take pride in only chasing Western guys. That's just racism in reverse.

And then there is also the phenomenon of loving Western culture without understanding any of it. That's probably the Asian mirror image of the pale Western weaboo - reading manga (in English) all night and "knowing" that he will marry into Japan, the promised land where everything and everyone is better...

Really, the whole world should enforce a year of travelling after high school, it would be a much wiser place.

> The fact that it refers almost exclusively to women suggests also that there is a male chauvinist implication behind the term

Or experience from the real world - Taiwanese males dating Western girls are almost impossible to find.
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